We often wonder how love turns into hate. In reality, the distance between love and hate is very small, and it can be measured by three words: trust, faith and respect. Love turns to hate when trust is broken, when faith is broken, and when our respect for someone crumbles like sand castles.
The Breaking of Trust
Love is built on trust. When we trust someone, and they break that trust, it creates a deep rift in our hearts. This crack not only hurts our feelings but also casts a shadow on our world. We begin to feel delusional and the bright colors of love begin to fade. At that moment, the very foundation of love begins to crumble.
The Death of Faith
When faith dies, it is the beginning of emotional agony. There was a time when we put all our hopes and dreams in that person, but when those hopes are dashed, our hearts are filled with regret. In that moment, love is replaced by hate, and we become deceived.
The Beginning of Hate
When these three things – trust, faith and respect – are broken, love turns to hate. Sometimes, when sand fills our eyes, everything becomes blurry, and we feel a deep sense of poisonous droplets on our emotions. This feeling of hatred grows so intense that we can no longer see the truth within ourselves. Instead, we only see what hurts us, and we begin to ignore the deeper reality of the situation.
A New Beginning
Of course, after every poison there is a way to heal. After every hate a new beginning is possible. When we reflect on deep emotional pain and regret our mistakes, we begin to understand that every painful experience teaches us something. And these lessons give us strength to move forward in life.
The Inner Devil
When we are blindfolded by hatred, we fail to see the devil within us. At this point, we only see things that hurt us. We forget our truths and focus only on the hidden forms of hatred within us, which lead us into deep darkness.